Say ADHD: From Silence to Support
A starter guide for African American parents who suspect their child has ADHD or have just received a diagnosis. Learn to see past the stigma, understand the diagnosis, and advocate for your child with confidence.
The moment you suspect ADHD, or hear the diagnosis, can bring questions, fear, and opinions from every direction. This guide is your first step from silence to support.
Written by Dr. Angel Gates, a public health educator and mom of four boys, all of whom have ADHD, Say ADHD: From Silence to Support combines current research with real experience. It is built on the S.A.Y. framework:
S – See Past the Stigma. Understand how bias and stigma shape the way our children are seen, and learn how to start honest conversations with family and community.
A – Acknowledge the Diagnosis. Recognize the signs of ADHD, know what to expect from an evaluation, and find the right support at home and school.
Y – Yield No Longer to Fear. Advocate boldly for your child and celebrate the strengths they bring.
What's inside:
Plain-language facts about ADHD in African American children, based on current research
The truth behind three common ADHD myths
15 tips for starting conversations about ADHD with family and community
The signs of ADHD and the three ways it can show up
A step-by-step guide to the evaluation process, plus a reflection page to prepare
IEP vs. 504 Plan, explained simply
A sample letter to request a school evaluation
A guide to recognizing and nurturing your child's strengths
Dr. Gates's personal stories from her own family's journey
Who it's for: Parents and caregivers who suspect their child may have ADHD or have recently received a diagnosis. Also helpful for grandparents, family members, and church leaders who want to understand and support a child with ADHD.
Format: 36-page PDF, available for instant download after purchase.
This guide is for education and support. It is not medical advice and does not replace diagnosis or treatment by a licensed professional.

